Reflecting on the verse, “Very truly I tell you, when you were younger you dressed yourself and went where you wanted; but when you are old you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will dress you and lead you where you do not want to go,” I am always reminded of Oyunga Pala. He is a true man’s man—one whose patience, love, and care have helped nurture me into who I am today.
Much like a diligent gardener, Oyunga’s coaching style artfully blends essential elements. Tending: He patiently guides, encouraging gentle, steady growth. Pruning: With compassion, he challenges with truth that may be uncomfortable but is always necessary for transformation. Watering: Through consistent support and kindness, he nurtures potential, helping it flourish.
What distinguishes Oyunga is his integration of the Utu framework in coaching—a philosophy grounded in African ideals that anchors each person within the broader community. For African men in particular, this approach reinforces that growth is not about self-centred awareness or abandoning one’s community in the pursuit of the narcissistic pursuit of self actualisation prevalent in today’s psychological and coaching practice. Instead, personal development is a journey that strengthens your connection to the collective. Oyunga encourages returning to the community with newfound grace, lifting others as you continue forward. This shared progress ensures everyone can rise in consciousness and contribute to a better tomorrow. Oyunga Pala is truly a coach’s coach—uniquely equipped to provide guidance, fostering not just individual excellence but also a communal legacy in a world searching for meaning amid daily chaos.