Women are evolutionary inclined to be picky when choosing a partner. The average woman in search of a marriage partner will regularly state that the men in the market for husbands are simply not good enough and below average.
The relationship between the citizen and the government is a classic manipulative marriage of convenience. The person you thought you married turns out to be an entirely different monster once you are legally bound.
We should know better but lust is a powerful creature. St Augustine of Hippo’s said, lust indulged became habit, and habit unrestricted became necessity. Kenyans sleep around out of necessity. Marriage vows are a burden worn very lightly.