We should know better but lust is a powerful creature. St Augustine of Hippo’s said, lust indulged became habit, and habit unrestricted became necessity. Kenyans sleep around out of necessity. Marriage vows are a burden worn very lightly.
The effect of the tight lipped policy has led to our society’s fascination with sex and massive confusion of attitudes towards it. We crave the pleasure of sex but can’t deal with the emotional pain and complexity that often accompanies it.
This relationship was built on the one thing they knew to be true-their commitment to good sex. It had taken them months to refine the fun element and carefully extracting it from the mumbo-jumbo they call a love affair.