Normal has become what we see most of the time. We have stopped challenging the norm and accept suffering as the status quo.
We seem to have arrived at that unconscious state of existence as a country where we can’t seem to see that what we call normal, isn’t normal at all.
Silence is a safe space for men. Women tend to think infidelity is the ugly monster one must not speak of. Infidelity is something men never talk about anyway until they get caught and feel remorseful. It is the other emotional stuff such vulnerability, emasculation, loss of power and status that men try to keep a lid on.
This relationship was built on the one thing they knew to be true-their commitment to good sex. It had taken them months to refine the fun element and carefully extracting it from the mumbo-jumbo they call a love affair.